Women dating after divorce
After years of being in a relationship, putting yourself back in the singles market can be a daunting endeavor. After 19 years of waking up next to the same person, Yolanda*, a marketing consultant, suddenly found herself greeting mornings alone.
The two were married on March 6, and in an interview with Hello Beautiful, she said that he pushes her to be better, and is a man of God:“There’s a lot of men who say they love God, but a man who fears God, his soul is going to tremble at the thought, ‘this is someone who is my wife,’ and ‘do right by her.’ A man who fears God, his very first thought is, ‘What am I doing to please God that then is going to please her?
While the other side seemed to shout that she is supposed to deny her desires and remain a good girl and a good role model to her children. She went a little wild and began immersing herself by going to bars, allowing herself to be picked up by attractive men and having one-night stands.
She was looking for validation in herself and for a way to fill the deep yearning she had for all that had been lacking in her marriage.
Casual sex after divorce means different things to different people.
Some women will confuse the intimacy with love, leaving them open to be hurt.